Whew!

What a whirlwind holiday! We had the Gerren's over for lunch on Christmas Eve. Other than me forgetting to make the stuffing, everything turned out wonderfully! We were able to get a family picture, which is great, too. I don't know when the last time was that we were all together...Then we were on to Matt's Uncle Randy and Aunt Laurie's house...Christmas Eve there and then back to Maw Maw and Paw Paw's for Christmas Eve night and Christmas morning. Needless to say, Kellen had a BLAST, and was relatively well-behaved considering his lack of sleep. Later that day, we drove down to Houston to visit Matt's moms side of the family. Lots of food, games and naps took place there...and all-in-all, everyone had a great time.

We made it back home on Tuesday night, had a day home to recoup, then headed out again on Thursday morning for the Stephenville area...We were heading out to some friends of ours for a Holiday Bowl party. Gotta' love them Aggies! Highlight of the game - the first quarter - at least by the end of that we were tied...*sigh* Back here yesterday afternoon (lucikly making it through all of the horrible weather that was going on around here yesterday - whew! I was SO glad that Matt was driving!!)....today's just been a lazy day...the weather is still gloomy - dark, rainy, you know...the kind of weather you DON'T want to get out in, so Kellen has just been playing very nicely around here and we've been letting him watch some of the many DVD's he got over Christmas.

When I get a chance to download the pictures we took over the break, I'll try to upload them.

I'm not ready yet!

We're having Christmas lunch here at the house tomorrow with the Gerren's, and I just don't feel ready! Virtually all of the shopping is done, but I still have a few things to wrap - but despite working on the house for the last couple of days, I still have things on the "to-do" list that I just can't seem to get done.

It doesn't help that Tatum has decided to use the last couple of days and my internal organs to experiment with her strength, either. Wow! She's really moving and kicking! It's wearing me out...I told Kellen that he needed to tell his sister to knock it off...he told me he wouldn't say that to her because it was mean and he didn't want to be mean to his sister. Oh man...If only I could have recorded that for posterity.

Getting there!

Well, I passed my gestational diabetes 1-hr test today. Yay! For some reason, I was a little anxious about that one this go-round. All things are progressing well with Tatum...3 more months!

Getting ready

With Christmas a week away, it's a shame how much we still have to do to get ready around here! Yikes! Fortunately, I should get most of my Christmas letters in the mail tomorrow, and we'll just keep going from there.

Where did December go?....Where did this year go?

I guess he solved that issue with his recent comment

I'll preface this little story by saying that DH and I had been contemplating not putting up a Christmas tree or many decorations since we're trying to declutter and get our place ready to sell.

I pick Kellen up from school today, and today was the day that all the kids hung their handmade ornaments on the school Christmas tree. Kellen excitedly hangs up his green star, then we set off to come home. In the car, he tells me, "It's Merry Christmas at school, but not at home." A little surpised, I asked him why does he think that. His response, "There is a Christmas tree at school, but not one at our house."

Well that solved that debate. I believe we'll be getting the Christmas tree sometime this weekend.

**** Sweet big brother moment ****
Tatum was(is) really kicking this afternoon, so I asked Kellen if he wanted to feel her kick. He did, so he had his hand on my belly while she was kicking - with this really excited look on his face. Then he turned to me and said, "She's kicking because she's ready to come out of your tummy!"

While this was happening, I had my t-shirt pulled up over my belly...when he was finished feeling her kick, I started to pull my shirt back down and he told me to wait. He said that she needed a blanket to cover her up - then proceeded to go and get one of his blankets and "tuck-in" his sister - and my belly. Just adorable!!

And so it starts...

Kellen asked me this evening how the baby would get out of my tummy.

I thought I would have a little while longer (i.e. until he was OLDER) before I would begin having those kinds of conversations.... Anyway, we talked for a little while about it and at one point in time, he asked if the baby was going to break me when it came out. (It'll feel like it, buddy!) I think that I was able to explain it in a way that he understands, because after we were almost through talking, I asked him if he was scared that the baby would hurt mommy when it came out and he answered no.

Whew!

He was so cute about it! The innocence with his questions and his reactions to my reponses...just priceless!

Rough day

I'll make this a short post...but it's been a rough day. We had to put Bailey down today, and neither Matt nor I are doing very well with that. Then Matt lost his phone - *sigh* Just not a great day.

Matt had a talk with Kellen on the way home from school about Bailey and that he wouldn't be at our house anymore. He and I had talked about what each of us thought we should say to him, so Matt incorporated both of our thoughts into his talk. So, before bedtime, this is my conversation with Kellen:

Mommy: Kellen, do you want to talk about Bailey?

Kellen: Not right now. I don't want to talk about it.

Mommy: Ok, but I want to make sure you know that it's ok to be sad because Bailey isn't here.

Kellen: I'm not sad.

Mommy: You're not sad?

Kellen: No, Bailey is with Jesus. But Mommy and Daddy are sad, but not Kellen.

Mommy at this point in time is choking back tears. He's handling it so well...Too bad Mommy and Daddy aren't.

Updates...

Ok, it's been WAY too long since I've posted anything on here. I would like to say that I've been sitting around eating bon bons and getting massages and pedicures, but alas...no such luck - well, 1 pedicure to speak of, actually..

Let's see...to back up and try to recap...

Halloween...Kellen had a GREAT time as Buzz Lightyear.

The weekend prior to Halloween, Matt, Maw Maw and Paw Paw took him to an event at the MSC hosted by MSC Hospitality, and he had a blast. They had TONS of games to play, cookies to decorate, cupcakes, etc. He flirted with the girls and "pow powed" everyone with his Buzz Lightyear laser.

He was just adorable! (And really well behaved, too!)

He also experienced his first ever Aggie football game when we took him to watch A&M at Baylor stadium. Despite having virtually NO nap all day long, and thinking he was going to just sleep through the entire thing, he ended up coming alive during the second half and really getting into it! He just loves his Aggies! We went to a tailgate before the game, and he just had a great time playing with the rocks in the parking lot (surprise, surprise). This is a picture taken right at kick-off...

This is during the latter part of the game where he REALLY was getting into it...He was so adorable to watch!That particular weekend was REALLY full, as he had a birthday party to attend on Sunday...and it was a costume party! Yet another opportunity for him to become Buzz Lightyear...Incredible Pizza is really that...incredible! He had a blast playing the games and doing some of the little rides, and thotoughly enjoyed himself.

Then on Halloween day, his class had a party - costume of course. We didn't let him wear Buzz to school all day, but changed him into it right before the party. He was being quite the little camera ham...posing in various ways and asking me to take his picture. After the school party, we went to the mall and trick-or-treated at the mall (the ENTIRE mall) and ran into a "Bulls-eye" and another "Buzz Lightyear", then he was ready to go, only to tell me in the car that he wanted to go somewhere else. So, we went to sorority row and trick-or-treated at sorority row, where we ran into a "Woody" - he just loved it! Too bad the poor kid that was dressed up like Woody was shy...I think Kellen intimidated him a little bit! We were there for a little while when he tells me that he's through, go back to the car and, you guessed it! he wanted to go someplace else. So, we went to a local Halloween party/community carnival and he just HAD to play every single game there! He wore me out!!

We've also taken down the toddler bed and have switched Kellen to a real big-boy bed. It's a captains bed with drawers, etc., and he just loves it! Maw Maw bought him some Cars sheets, which of course were a HUGE hit.

Thanksgiving was good...We went to Minerva for the Gerren/Dyer Thanksgiving get-together and had a good time there. On Friday, we drove to Conroe to hang out with the Hapes, including Brenna, and watched the A&M vs tu game. Oh my goodness! I think I'm still in shock that we won that game! WHOOP! Stayed there until Saturday night, then came on back home.

Last Thursday, we took Kellen to the Veggie Tales Live Christmas show here in town, and he had a really good time. The weather had turned pretty cold, and the wind had really kicked up, so I'll have to include my "attack by the wind" story that resulted in a bumped noggin' and (not too bad) of a black eye later.

Whew!...In other news, we had an ultrasound a couple of weeks ago and found out that we're having a little girl. At the ultrasound, she measured 1 pound 3 ounces, which is larger than my book (you know, the week-by-week pregnancy books that estimate/generalize everything) indicate for the number of weeks at that time. We decided to find out because Kellen was SO adamant that this was a girl that if it turned out to be a boy, we figured that we would need some additional "adjustment" time for him to deal with it. When we told him it was a girl, it didn't faze him. My guess is that in his mind, he was thinking, 'duh...that's what I've been saying for months now.'

As of today, I'm 25 weeks. 3 1/2 more months to go! This pregnancy has just FLOWN by so far! I can't believe it! She's getting really active (surprise), and her movements are getting stronger. Matt and I have been doing the name game, and I think that we've settled on Tatum Elizabeth. She'll be here before we know it!